Behind the Scenes: Miss M’s Bold Plus-Size Goth Boudoir Experience

Ms M recently embraced the transformative power of boudoir photography, booking a session that included a unique twist with our Food Bonus Set featuring faux blood. By prepaying for her digitals, she unlocked this free bonus, adding a dramatic flair to her photos. Here's a look at her journey and how it helped her reclaim her confidence as a plus size woman.

Miss M had been planning to do a boudoir session forever, but it was a recent breakup that finally pushed her to take the plunge. "I had been planning to do one forever. The final push was when I got dumped by a very emotionally abusive, non-committal narcissist. He dropped me to get back with his ex, who he immediately committed to. It was like a meme I saw, 'She's a ten, but he made her feel like a zero.' I just really needed a boost to my self-esteem," she shared.

Choosing Tiffany as her photographer was an easy decision for Miss M. "I loved that you were very inclusive and LGBTQ+ friendly. I also saw that you had a portfolio of women my size, and they all looked amazing," she explained. The consultation was a key part of the process, helping Miss M feel prepared and at ease. "It was very relaxed. I got a really good idea of what I was going to be doing and what I needed to go research when I got home. I feel like I understood every step of the process I was about to go through. We also had fun talking about my geeky interests along the way," she said.

In the week leading up to her session, Miss M felt a mix of excitement and nerves. "My self-esteem is my biggest enemy. I'm someone who doesn't even take a whole lot of selfies of myself, so I wasn't sure if I would like seeing photos of me. But I also knew that all your photos look amazing, so I knew I was definitely in good hands."

The day of the session arrived, and Miss M found the experience to be both fun and empowering. "It was so much fun! I felt very at ease the entire time. Everything was explained to me in detail in terms of posing. I never felt lost about what I was doing. I was worried that I may not be able to do certain poses, but they were all broken down for me step-by-step. When there was a pose that I was struggling with, I was shown an alternate pose I could use instead," she recounted. Having her hair and makeup done was a highlight. "It was very relaxing while it was being done. I'm a fan of ASMR, and it was basically a real-life experience of that. I also enjoyed trash-talking my ex with all the ladies there. I felt heard. At the end, the results looked so amazing. I felt like the dark queen I wanted to be. It was my first time having it professionally done, but it won't be the last time," she said.

Reflecting on the session, Miss M had no complaints. "I can't think of anything I would change at all. I loved everything about the experience." She was especially grateful for the supportive environment. "Thank you so much! I loved my photos and working with y'all. It was a fantastic time."

Seeing her images for the first time was a powerful moment. "That I looked like a dark goddess! I loved them so much. It was like, 'Is this really me?' Yes. Yes it was," she marveled. The reveal process helped her appreciate each photo. "I think it did. It made it easier to look through them and get an idea of what I wanted from them."

Miss M's detailed review captures the essence of her boudoir journey. "I was in a weird 'relationship' with a narcissist. He was treating me like a girlfriend but wouldn't call me one. He dumped me without warning one day to get back with his ex. In hindsight, I see all the warning signs, but I didn't realize how abusive he was at the time. I have always had terrible self-esteem, and it just tanked over the whole fiasco. My friends were legit worried about me. I was actually looking for a photographer for a friend when I came across y'all and put in an inquiry. I kind of poured my heart out in that inquiry, and y'all were so kind to me. I talked to my friends, and they all convinced me this would be good for me and my self-esteem. I pretty much immediately started looking at lingerie and props for the session. I wasn't really sure what I wanted to go for at first, so I kinda prepared for everything."

"The photoshoot was exactly what I was expecting. Tiffany did a fabulous job of explaining what I would do during the consultation. When it was done, I was both excited and nervous to see my photos. When I finally saw them, I was absolutely blown away. I looked like a dark, vampire goddess. I never knew I could look like that. I have actually had submissives beg to be allowed to worship these photos. So I absolutely love how they turned out. I never thought I would want a giant print of a photo of myself on the wall. I intend to do this again. I'm already thinking about doing it around the same time next year. I would 100% recommend it to my friends. I already have a couple that I am trying to convince already."

Ready to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and confidence? Book your boudoir session today and let us help you see yourself in a whole new light. Contact us now to schedule your consultation and take the first step towards celebrating the beautiful, confident you!